When Brothers and Sisters Carry Our Burdens for Us
“As they led him away, they seized Simon from Cyrene, who was on his way in from the country, and put the cross on him and made him carry it behind Jesus.“
Sometimes, during our Christian voyage, other brothers and sisters in the Lord will carry our Cross for us. In Galatians 6:2 it says, “Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” The event where Simon of Cyrene carried Christ’s Cross for Him reminds me of the verse in Galatians.
There are times in our life when our Cross must be carried by some of the other children of the Lord because, like Jesus, we will find ourself falling under its heaviness. When the burdens really become too much to handle, God sends other people to take care of them for us for a while.
Thinking About Other People’s Sorrows in the Midst of Our Own Trials
“A large number of people followed him, including women who mourned and wailed for him. Jesus turned and said to them, "Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for me; weep for yourselves and for your children. For the time will come when you will say, 'Blessed are the barren women, the wombs that never bore and the breasts that never nursed!' Then " 'they will say to the mountains, "Fall on us!" and to the hills, "Cover us!" 'For if men do these things when the tree is green, what will happen when it is dry?"
Jesus was in the midst of torment, His suffering was beyond description, nevertheless, He cared about others rather than for Himself. He went through this whole ordeal, the torture and the Crucifixion that is, for us and while He was going through it, He cared about those who suffered around Him.
We are called as well to take care of other people even in the midst of our own sufferings. As a matter of fact, we must really learn to forget ourself by giving our sufferings over to the Lord and keep taking care of other people even when these cause us great pain. This is the Christian life, this is the Cross.
Being Numbered Among the Wicked (or seen as evil)
“Two other men, both criminals, were also led out with him to be executed. When they came to the place called the Skull, there they crucified him, along with the criminals—one on his right, the other on his left.“
“It is written: 'And he was numbered with the transgressors'; and I tell you that this must be fulfilled in me. Yes, what is written about me is reaching its fulfillment." (Luke 22:37) Jesus was numbered among the transgressors, the criminals. If His enemies saw Him as evil, our enemies will see us as evil too. “It is enough for the student to be like his teacher, and the servant like his master. If the head of the house has been called Beelzebub, how much more the members of his household!” (Jesus in Matthew 10:25)
It’s hard to understand why some unbelievers see us as evil. It’s quite obvious when we behave properly, when we do good – for us it’s clear as spring water anyways – however, for them it isn’t. Some non-believers are so blind that they can’t see righteousness even if it’s right under their nose! Instead, they will perceive evil and wrongdoing where there is righteousness and goodness. Consequently, they will accuse us of all sorts of things we never did and everything gone wrong will be our fault. This is the work of the evil one and persecution for our being righteous.
Forgiving our Wrongdoers out of Compassion for Them
“Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing." And they divided up his clothes by casting lots.”
I imagine that when Jesus prayed that to His Father that His heart was filled with compassion towards His wrongdoers. It’s true, His enemies did not know what they were doing and that was quite a pity. In the end, they were worst off than Jesus could ever be.
When someone wrongs us, we ought to have the same merciful attitude as Jesus’. People will wrong us, both inside and outside the Church and everytime it’ll happen, our wrongdoers are going to be the ones to pity, not us.
The devil blinds people in order to attack Christians.
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:12)
Christians who wrong other Christians are still slaves to Satan in certain areas of their life, even if they belong to God and are covered by the grace of Christ. It’s not pleasant to not be totally free in Christ and a pity.
Receiving Insults for Who We Are and For What We Did Good
“The people stood watching, and the rulers even sneered at him. They said, "He saved others; let him save himself if he is the Christ of God, the Chosen One." The soldiers also came up and mocked him. They offered him wine vinegar and said, "If you are the king of the Jews, save yourself." There was a written notice above him, which read: THIS IS THE KING OF THE JEWS.”
Jesus was laughed at because of Who He is. The people laughed at His Person, His Being and insulted Him without even knowing Who He was. In reality, Jesus was mocked at because of who the people thought He was.
As Christians, we will be judged wrongly and mocked at as well. Some people will hurl insults at us thinking we’re total nuts, insane or plain stupid; they will fail to see our great, wonderful Heavenly Father and that what we share He did in our lives, He can do in theirs as well, if they so wish.
Even people in Church will laugh at us and judge us wrongly. This too, shouldn’t come as a surprise to a Christian.
Being Recognized and Accepted by the Outcasts
“One of the criminals who hung there hurled insults at him: "Aren't you the Christ? Save yourself and us!" But the other criminal rebuked him. "Don't you fear God," he said, "since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong." Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." Jesus answered him, "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise."
Jesus was crucified between two criminals. Criminals, like prostitutes and tax collectors, were outcasts of society in Jesus’ time. Of course, we know that one of those criminals rejected Him openly, however the other criminal recognized Him as Who He was.
Jesus was the Friend of the outcasts of society. There are many outcasts who obviously reject the Message of the Gospel when it is presented to them and who refuse to come to Christ however, they are the category of people who are most likely to convert. Jesus said the following to the religious authorities: "I tell you the truth, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you. For John came to you to show you the way of righteousness, and you did not believe him, but the tax collectors and the prostitutes did. And even after you saw this, you did not repent and believe him.” (Matthew 21:31,32)
It seems that the outcasts are more readily disposed to hear the Gospel Message and accept it than other people because they have so reached their wits’ end and are so completely helpless. What is there left for them but to throw themselves at the feet of Jesus and welcome His love for them?
As Christians, we carry the love of Christ within us. Suffering people often come to Christians to get some help and/or speak to a compassionate listening ear. They know they are most likely to be more well received by loving Christians than by unbelievers…
Part of the Cross is to take care of the outcasts of society; it is one of our callings and a privilege.
Giving our Lives So that Others Might Find Freedom in Him
“It was now about the sixth hour, and darkness came over the whole land until the ninth hour, for the sun stopped shining. And the curtain of the temple was torn in two. Jesus called out with a loud voice, "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." When he had said this, he breathed his last.”
If Jesus gave His life for us, it’s to free us; He went at great lengths to do this for us. Nothing could stop Him. His whole life was given over for us and for the world up until His death where He literally gave it so we could have abundant life here on earth and eternal life in the hereafter. What greater love can there be than this?
We are also to be dead unto ourselves so as to serve both God and man. “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13)
The Cross means to forget about ourselves. We should be ready to serve our neighbour and brothers and sisters in the Lord anytime, like good soldiers on the watch. The sacrifice of our time and energies must have, as their purpose, to relieve suffering and bring people to true freedom from themselves (and anything which enslaves them) through Jesus-Christ. That’s what Jesus did while on earth… always bringing freedom to people, always easing some pain.
Being Recognized for Who We Were at Our Death
“The centurion, seeing what had happened, praised God and said, "Surely this was a righteous man." When all the people who had gathered to witness this sight saw what took place, they beat their breasts and went away. But all those who knew him, including the women who had followed him from Galilee, stood at a distance, watching these things.”
“Now there was a man named Joseph, a member of the Council, a good and upright man, who had not consented to their decision and action. He came from the Judean town of Arimathea and he was waiting for the kingdom of God. Going to Pilate, he asked for Jesus' body. Then he took it down, wrapped it in linen cloth and placed it in a tomb cut in the rock, one in which no one had yet been laid. It was Preparation Day, and the Sabbath was about to begin. The women who had come with Jesus from Galilee followed Joseph and saw the tomb and how his body was laid in it. Then they went home and prepared spices and perfumes. But they rested on the Sabbath in obedience to the commandment.”
Part of the Cross is that we may never be recognized during our lifetime; however, we may be recognized truly for who we were after our death! We can see the reactions of the centurion and the nearby witnesses ‘Surely this was a righteous man’; they repented, honoured and respected Him after Christ gave up His life…
